What happens when a musically talented couple with a passion for heartfelt details, and an appreciation for the simple, beautiful things in life come together? You get the spectacular backyard wedding of Janese and Matt in Port Jefferson, NY!

This was more than just a wedding; it was a deeply personal, rustic boho backyard wedding built entirely by hand—a true labor of love. As Long Island wedding photographer, we were completely captivated by the warmth and intentionality poured into every detail of this special day.

The Beauty of DIY: A Custom Love Story

Held in a friend's picturesque backyard in Port Jefferson, this celebration perfectly captured the couple's fun-loving spirit. From the decor to the music, everything was completely DIY.

The ceremony was incredibly moving. Janese and Matt wrote their own vows, sharing heartfelt, unique promises that left everyone teary-eyed along with so many laughs. The musical element was a huge highlight: Matt, a musician himself, arranged for a live brass band to play the classics, creating an unforgettable, soul-stirring soundtrack for their vows.

The fun continued into the reception with personalized touches everywhere. We loved the sight of the couple in their custom, comfort-first footwear—customized Crocs! Janese also set up an exit Potato Chip station for the guests exit. If this becomes a trend you will hear no complaints from me. The DJ played a surprise theme song from A Bug's Life, Matt's favorite movie, adding a dose of heartwarming nostalgia and humor. This entire day was a masterclass in making a wedding truly them.

Tips for Planning Your Own Unique DIY Backyard Wedding

Janese and Matt’s wedding proves you don't need a huge budget or a grand ballroom to create a unique, beautiful, and highly meaningful day. If you’re planning a similar backyard wedding on Long Island, here are a few tips inspired by their amazing celebration:

1. Embrace Personalization Over Perfection (The Vows & Crocs)

The elements that made Janese and Matt’s wedding truly memorable were the things they made completely their own.

  • Write Your Own Vows: There is no substitute for vows written from the heart. They instantly elevate the ceremony and make it deeply personal.
  • Customize Your Comfort: Skip the stuffy formality where you can. Custom footwear like their personalized Crocs shows your personality and keeps the party going!
  • Embrace the yard: As photographers utilize what is there. This yard had an unbelievable tree that let light peek through right at the perfect time giving that little kiss from the sun that was impossible to beat


2. Prioritize Entertainment That Reflects You (The Live Band & DJ)

As musicians, Janese and Matt knew music was non-negotiable. Don't rely solely on a playlist; incorporate live elements that tell your story.

  • Live Music: Whether it’s a brass band for the ceremony or a local guitarist for cocktail hour, live music adds an atmosphere that a DJ alone cannot match.
  • Themed Surprises: Work with your DJ to integrate songs or themes significant to your relationship, like Matt’s movie theme. These small, fun moments become huge memories.
  • Bring the fun: This group was a great time. Everyone from the young to the experienced was out on the dance floor. There was bubble machines and dollar guns that had dollars falling from the sky on our couple for their entrance. When your guest bring the energy it does not matter where your party is.

3. Let the Rustic Backyard Vibe Shine (The Decor)

The beauty of a rustic backyard wedding is the natural setting. Use your DIY efforts to enhance, not cover up, the environment.

  • Lighting is Key: Focus your DIY budget on string lights, lanterns, and candles. Simple lighting transforms any backyard into a magical, intimate reception space.
  • Natural Decor: Utilize what’s available. Think simple wildflower centerpieces, potted plants, and natural wood signs to lean into that boho and rustic feel.
  • Dress your space: Janese+Matt had two statement boho peacock chair that was carefully curated with tablescapes and backdrops to make their sweetheart table into unique vintage chairs that allowed them to feel every bit of the star of the day.


Ready to Capture Your Unique Love Story?

Whether you're planning a massive event or an intimate, DIY backyard wedding in Port Jefferson or anywhere else on Long Island, NY, we specialize in capturing the real emotion and unique details that make your day special.

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